Finally...a Happy Birthday

Clark ate some of the icing off the front of the cake before I could snap a picture. :-)

 Today (10 days after his real birthday) marks the completion of Clark's fourth birthday.  It's been quite an saga of illnesses and exciting twists in this story.

  I canceled his party the first time so that we could spend time with family that surprised us with a short visit.  On that birthday, Clark got his Diego cake and his first Happy Meal thanks to Aunt Diane. :-)  We had to take Joel to the doctor during their visit for an ear infection.  And Clark woke up that Sunday morning with everyone here with a fever.

We have been plagued with illnesses ever since.  A few days later, Clark came down with an ear infection on his real birthday that landed him his first ever antibiotics!  He was miserable that week, so we didn't even tell him it was his birthday.

So today, we had a birthday play date with his good buddies.  We had lunch, cupcakes, and got to play outside together.

I'm sure we set the expectations high with extending his birthday two weeks.  Hopefully he'll forget that detail to his fourth birthday and just remember the highlights.

He requested strawberry cake and green frosting, so Mom obliged.

The boys playing with the new toys

Happy 4th Birthday, Clark!

 

It's official.  My silly, tall, thin, imaginative joker is FOUR today!!!! 

It almost breaks my heart to think how fast these four years have gone.  Just "yesterday" he was a baby.

Now he's a big brother and has chores.  Next he'll be driving a car.  EEEEKKKK!!!

Clark is an amazing boy.  His sweet tender heart makes mine melt.   He's the kind of kid who says hello to everyone and makes small talk with all.  He looks people in the eye and introduces his family just like a big person.  He makes everyone feel welcome in our home by his hospitality.  At church one day, he offered his chair to a late comer who didn't have a seat.  What a sweetie pie!!!

He is a peacemaker.  He is constantly seeking peace and justice.  When Michael and I get into a debate, Clark is the first to remind us to be nice to one another.  He is always seeking mediation between friends fighting over toys.   He has taken on the role of big brother/protector already. 

When we named him, I had a vision in my heart of a boy/man who would make the world a better place by helping others and standing up for justice just like Clark Kent.   In his short four years, he has already made this world more friendly, colorful, and peaceful. 

So happy birthday to my little Super Man.

Taking It Easy

No, I'm not singing an Eagles song, I'm under doctor's orders to "take it easy".  I have 8 weeks to go to my due date.  And I don't think I'll make it that far.  I don't know how to take it easy, rest, or be still, so the next two months are going to be hard on me.  I've taken up knitting to keep me busy.    My amazing, awesome husband has been taking up my slack by cooking, cleaning, and house chores just to get me off my feet. He's even been doing my "honey do" list items.  This weekend he built me a garden box and shoveled dirt into it for my spring veggie garden.  I love how Michael includes our sons into everything he does.  He pulled out the kiddie shovels and taught them how to shovel dirt.  He also allowed them to practice hammering while building the box.  And of course they loved every second of helping Daddy.

I often wonder, "Did I marry Superman?"  He's a super man and dad, and I can't believe how blessed I am to have him.

Here's a funny picture of our boys wearing their safety goggles and their backpacks as they play with trains. It cracked me up how funny they looked.

Our Snowy Day

 

We woke up this morning with 8.5 inches of snow on the ground and more falling! 

So with the world at a stand still, 

we set out to enjoy this gorgeous day.  

We ran out for a few minutes in the morning, 

but we waited for daddy to go sledding.

 Clark and Daddy had a great time sledding in our backyard.  The dogs had fun eating snow.

  Then we went to the front yard and made snowballs.  Clark enjoyed throwing them in our faces which ended up down our shirts.  Brrrr!

This snowball is for you, Grandma.   

Poor Joel cried most of the time.  He couldn't walk in the snow because it was too high. 

He kept falling down and getting frustrated.  Clark on the other hand loved every 

second and didn't want to go in.

After an hour in the snow, we went inside, warmed by the fire, cuddled up. and ate snow cream!!!  Yum!!

A Beautiful Christmas Morning

                                                             
Many of you know I have been struggling with how to make Christmas less about toys and more about Christ and family and generosity. Today was our Christmas.  We decided to celebrate early.   I think Michael and I did a good job balancing our values and beliefs with tradition this year.  We emphasized the reason for Christmas by making a birthday cake, reading the nativity story, doing crafts, and acting out the story of Christ's birth.  We also allowed Clark to ask questions about Santa and do some Santa stuff without compromising.  We will reevaluate for next year, but today was a beautiful Christmas morning.

In the morning, the boys woke up super early filled with excitement.  They enjoyed their three gifts from us and one from Santa!  Then we had a yummy breakfast of homemade cinnamon rolls and jalapeno sausage rolls (I tried to copy Max's Doughnuts from Allen, TX).

The huge bouncy horse was a last minute surprise for all of us.  Last night, we got the horse for free!!  They loved the horse and the garage sale gifts more than their other store bought gifts"!  That is a good thing since we try to be thrifty. 

 

Here the boys are digging in their stocking to find flashlights and airplanes!

The Christmas Miracle

 Michael and I usually don't do gifts for each other at Christmas.  If we do, it's something to replace something broken.  This year, I got sneaky and surprised him.  I put back some extra money I made from babysitting and bought him a Wii!!!  He's been wanting one for years denying the indulgence.  I think I saw tears in his eyes as he opened his present.  It was priceless to see my husband so happy!!!  (His love language is gifts btw.) 

 Our boys enjoyed the day in pajamas and sharing all their new treasures.  They were angels and even shared with our babysitting friend all day!

Christmas was simple, relaxed, fun, and meaningful.  Just the way it was supposed to be.

A family Sunday photo shoot

 

Here's a picture of me at 26 weeks!

I look more like 40! :-)

We have the hardest time getting the boys to look at the camera now days.  We had to work so hard to get these few photos.   If you know any tricks, let me know.

A walk down memory lane--four years ago

 Just for fun, I was looking through our old photos.  I couldn't help but walk down memory lane.

 

It's so hard to believe that four years ago, it was just Michael and I.   Wow, four years later, we have three children!!!  And we look so much older!!! ;-)

 

Four years ago, Michael had a great group of guys in Texas who held each other accountable, and we were part of an exciting church plant. 

Four years ago, we lived in McKinney, Texas.  Michael had to commute about an hour each way in our vehicles Freezer Burn and Madame Blueberry.  I taught second grade, and I loved it. 
Little did we know that we were on the verge of a new and exciting adventure in Tennessee!

Four years = a lot of change and adventure!!!  

Pirates and Cowboys Oh My!

The boys enjoy playing dress up.  I keep a box of old Halloween costumes and dress up clothes available for them. Today he decided he wanted to be a cowboy and ride his horse around the house. The other day he was a pirate the whole day.   It's nice to always have cowboys, fire fighters, pirates, and dinosaurs at my house.
These are the days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Happy 2nd Birthday to my Amazing Joel!

 Newborn Joel

 

Now he's a big boy :-(  

It's so sad how fast they grow.

Construction Zone Party!!!

                                              
This cake was easy and fun to make--my favorite kind!


Saturday was Joel's birthday. We had a little get together with family and friends.  We went with the construction truck theme because Joel loves dirt, digging, and trucks.  He loved it all!!!





                    10 Reasons Why We Love Joel:

• He wakes in the morning requesting cookies
•   He is persistent--He'll ask for something one million times.
•   He loves to give hugs to everyone.
•  He is as tough as nails.
• He loves so passionately.
•   He needs his boo boos kissed even if they are make believe boo boos.  He'll use anything as an excuse for a kiss.
• He loves to joke, "tell" knock knock jokes" and make people laugh.
• He adores his big brother.
•   He is brave and adventurous.
•   He loves to join in and help with everything. 

 

Here's a picture of Clark and his very pregnant mom at the party. 

To Santa or Not????

I have come to terms with the truth: my three year is obsessed with Santa.  I have not pushed it or encouraged it, but he is completely enthralled with the guy in the red suit.   When I ask him the question, "Why do we celebrate Christmas?"  The answer no matter how hard I try is "Santa brings presents."   And I have to admit the magic and fun of Santa is appealing to me as well.  I find it hard to let go of that part of Christmas even with my own personal convictions battling.  We're trying to find a balance. 

In my quest to be the best Godly mom I can be, I want to teach the real meaning of Christmas and have Christ be the number one focus.  I have to admit I am feeling a little overwhelmed with HOW DO I DO THIS.

My quest of the day: Would Jesus let Santa come down his chimney?
Answer: Maybe only if God gets the glory.
Disclaimer: This is going to be a toughie--controversial and an ever changing/reevaluating topic in my house!!! I would love to hear how other Christians balance all this while operating with the premise that the chief end of man is to glorify God and enjoy Him forever.

My Explanation: I want my children to grow up knowing that "Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows." James 1:17.
Every good gift includes:  presents under a tree, good grades, and a perfect football pass.  I want my Father to be in the spotlight in our home.

So Michael and I have talked about how can we do this.  We have decided this year we will not talk much about Santa, but Santa is invited to come to our house.  The presents will not be based on whether our children were naughty or nice because we know our hope is in undeserved GRACE.  We'll leave cookies for the jolly ole elf, but Santa might only leave one thing for each child.  And before we touch, open, or play with the toys on Christmas morning, we will pray and thank God for giving us all the good and perfect gifts under our tree.  We will make sure that we will give credit where credit is due. 

We will strive to spend our time and energy focusing on Jesus's birthday.  We will focus on Nativity crafts and activities.  We will act out the Nativity story with family and friends.   We will give Jesus gifts every year at Jesus's birthday party.  Our presents will be something dedicated to God like surrendering a bad habit or dedicating ourselves to a new discipline.  We'll write them down on balloons and send them off to heaven. And of course Jesus will get his cake.


I know children are only little for a short time, and I don't want to steal the Christmas magic we all treasure from our own childhoods.  But teaching God's truth and shaping their little hearts is just as short and precious of a time.  I will strive to store up my treasures in heaven by being intentional about eternal things.

I know it's a lot, but I'd love to hear what you do in your family about Santa.